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Overcoming people-pleasing so you can follow your own joy

If you can relate to any of the following, you may find the videos on this page helpful for beginning to release sabotaging people-pleasing and fawning patterns in your life:

  • Do you often aim to please others even at the cost of your own joy?

  • Do you feel fear, maybe even terror, at the idea of disappointing others?

  • Do you have trouble speaking your truth or respecting/holding your own boundaries? 

  • Do you have trouble saying no even when you want to? 

 

Questions about this practice? Feel free to email me at emilyasnider@gmail.com

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Questions about this practice? Feel free to email me at emilyasnider@gmail.com

Interested in highly tailored 1:1 support? Learn more about transformational coaching here.

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CHARLOTTE WATSON

Huge shift in self-worth!

Emily is so supportive, compassionate and non-judgmental. Even if there’s something you’d be a little bit shy or embarrassed about sharing, she creates a truly safe space to feel into those and air them so they’re not hidden in the shadows anymore. And, with the energy psychology tools, It’s amazing work to be able to use the body and the subconscious mind to get to the heart of things rather than having to battle with the conscious mind. It’s so much easier and efficient.

 

I used to have issues with self-worth around being able to set boundaries and have my needs and desires met in relationships. This was a big pattern in my unhealthy marriage. Even after my marriage, relationships felt mediocre—like they needed more work than I would get out of them, so what was the point?

 

As a result of this work, my self-worth has deepened and grown and I now feel like, “Oh yeah—I’m worthy of a good relationship. I know my needs will be met with the right person. It just feels like a natural inevitability.” 

 

Overall, I’m living more from a feeling of surrender and relaxation and am more anchored in my feminine nature. I now trust that the right things will come to me when I’m in this being and receiving zone rather than the masculine “work harder/try harder” mode that I was brought up with. 

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DISCLAIMER: The information on this website (emilyarincoaching.com) is intended solely to educate, inform and inspire you on your personal journey toward optimal health, happiness, and well-being. It is not a substitute for medical diagnosis or treatment from a qualified healthcare professional. Emily Arin Snider is not a doctor nor is she a licensed mental health practitioner. She does not diagnose or prescribe medications and nothing stated on this site in writing or video should be construed as such. 

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